Wednesday, 18 September 2013

Beggars Can be Choosers

Beggars Can be Choosers

Beggars on the street of any city in India have become an intolerable menace. But their growth in number, kind and ways show, how it has become almost like a full-fledged industry. We all know about organized begging, we know how they are been trapped, tortured, amputated and wasted, but still we encourage them by showing sudden bursts of sympathy and contribute directly in ruining their lives, who could have otherwise led a far better life instead. Because of our unthoughtful behaviour, people are choosing such a suicidal livelihood and the most ironical part of it is that, we are’ paying’ for it to happen.  Have we ever realized that few people, who don’t have an iota of sympathy in their mind, are making money only by exploiting public sympathy? Why should anyone waste their money for encouraging such heinous criminal racket?  If we don’t have time, money or scope to donate for a good cause, let us keep our money to ourselves and add up to our bank balance, than draining it to criminal hands. We need to ponder on the fact that, when we have the mind of helping a poor hand, when we feel for them at least once in a while, we can make amends; this small kindness can really change lives.
We can follow few simple steps to reduce the hyper activities of the begging rackets.
1.       Don’t give the beggars cash; give food, clothes or toys instead.
If we are moved by the beggar’s cry and plead, when we are in our vehicle waiting for a signal, we can give them a piece of food item, a clothing material or a toy. If we stop the circulation of money or resale items to the hands of beggars, it will directly benefit the beggar on site and not the wealthy, filthy criminal racket owner behind the screen.

2.       Whenever you see a child beggar, take a snap from your mobile.
All of us carry a mobile whenever we are outdoors. Whenever we come across a child beggar, even carried or accompanied by an elder, we can take a snap of them and post them in any of the social media sites, if not in a newspaper. Still better will be, if we can report it to the police station over ruling the fact that they won’t work. Sometimes they do, if they find, things are getting too public.
3.       Talk to them and take out information:
Whenever we come across a beggar pestering us to give him money, ask few questions like where is he from, whether he is in touch with his parents. Ask him and take a note whether he can tell his address or any contact person or their number.

4.       Inform the police:
If you want to save a life and have the satisfaction of it, take the trouble and initiative of informing the police, whatever information you could collect from those ill-fated children. We all know that in most cases Police disappoints us and to be more openly true, they put us into trouble. But then if we keep quiet and only watch things rushing towards the negative direction, one day we may have to pay an unbearable price for it.
A secured nation doesn’t happen one fine morning. it has to be built up day by day with all the hands put together. Corruption, crime and man-made-disasters can be reversed, if we can take the courage of resisting them instead of being more courageous to suffer their consequences. We need to remind ourselves, that those who are suffering today have also thought that “nothing will happen to them.”


Monday, 16 September 2013

Honesty, is it really appreciated?

Honestly speaking, honesty is considered as a virtue, but how is an honest man appreciated in our society? Is he really honoured?

We teach our children to be honest. We ourselves try our best to be honest. But if we look around the world and people who are always on the top of awards, rewards and achievements, do we find a category, where honesty was the criteria? Rather not. If people retain their honesty at each and every level, in real life situations, they wouldn't be surviving with ease.

We have seen this, experienced this, when we were children, when we grew up and through various stages of our lives. We shared our truth with our parents, they hardly believed. We revealed our fear to our friends, they took advantage of us. We admitted our mistakes to our teachers, but they didn't honour us back. We expressed our passion for our first crush, they crushed us down.

We have seen honest people around, unattended, unappreciated and neglected. Moreover, they are ridiculed, harped on and thrashed.

But look at those people, who could paint their faces with mysterious colours, look at those people who could wear a plastic smile on their face throughout their life. Nobody thrashes them for not revealing their actual mental state. Our country is ruled by those who are expert in fooling people, law and ethics. Moreover, there is an open option of career to be dishonest, and you can appoint them paying high prices to tell lies for you in a perfect order. Law has given them the permission to be dishonest and save dishonesty.

Yes, there are punishment for crime. But there isn't any social pressure on a person, if he is dishonest. But the same social pressure will fall unbearably on those who believe in honesty. There isn't any real life example where there is an honest man who hasn't suffered the bitterness of life. But people with dishonesty are at comfort. They are all fine and cool.

So, how do one teach his child to be honest again? How do we see our dear ones suffering the worst for just being honest? So, isn't it a fallacy that Virtue punishes you, while vice Rewards?

I know, the answer will be a very big "NO" and everybody will oppose to this ideology, but that won't be an honest answer again.